Love that lasts
is built with intention.
At Lovers Counseling, we work with couples and individuals who want more than a quick fix — they want the skills, insight, and emotional security to build a relationship that can withstand anything. Our prevention-first approach blends clinical expertise with emotionally intelligent strategy to strengthen your connection for the long term.
Big Feelings. Honest Conversations. Real Growth. We help modern couples build trust, navigate hard conversations, and create emotional safety that lasts. Explore deeper connection and lasting love with prevention-first relationship counseling with Chloé Miller, MA, LPC, MFTC, in Boulder, CO.
Redefining Romance with Couples Therapy in Boulder
Love. Is. Everything. This is why we fight for it.
We come to counseling to learn about ourselves and our love. Love only dies when we give up. Counseling gives us a chance to grow with our love.
Our philosophy is rooted in holistic, preventive, and skill-building relationship support: Dating Counseling + Premarital Counseling + Marriage Counseling. Through couples counseling, individual counseling, and relationship courses, lovers learn how to improve communication, end unhealthy relationship patterns, improve conflict resolution skills, and increase emotional regulation skills. lovers COUNSELING, in Boulder, Colorado, provides modern relationship counseling from relationship therapist Chloé Miller, MA, LPC, MFTC.
How We Support Your Love
Even strong relationships need support.
We help couples and individuals work through:
communication breakdowns
trust and betrayal challenges
emotional and physical intimacy issues
premarital foundation and relationship planning
conflict and disconnection patterns
life transitions
avoidance
anxiety
You don’t have to be in crisis to be in counseling.
You don’t have to be in counseling to begin. You just have to want more — more clarity, more peace, more connection.
Relationship Counseling in Boulder, CO
Therapy that meets you where you are — and helps you get where you want to go.
We use an integrative approach rooted in the Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy, and Internal Family Systems. But beyond the techniques, we lead with warmth, non-judgment, and deep respect for your story. Heal together and learn skills to expand your understanding and capacity for love and feel confident navigating modern love.
Virtual & In-Person Sessions
Individual
Counseling
Heal your patterns. Journey through self-discovery. Explore your attachment style. Show up differently for yourself and your partner.
Couples
Counseling
Rebuild connection. Repair trust. Learn how to communicate and love more effectively. Nurturing love and understanding for a more intimate bond.
Premarital Relationship Course
Set your relationship up for long-term success with therapist-led, skill-based sessions designed to build clarity, trust, and emotional safety.
Founders & Leadership Consulting
Clarify your vision. Navigate leadership with strategic insight and emotional intelligence. Build aligned systems for growth and impact.
Therapy Rooted in
Connection, Not Perfection
Meet Chloé Miller, MA, LPC, MFTC
Your Boulder Couples Therapist
Our Founder/Owner
Founded by Chloé Miller, MA, LPC, MFTC — Founder of Lovers Counseling, Executive HQ™, and The Chloé Miller Portfolio. Board Director at Denver Family Institute and Mentor at CU Boulder’s Leeds School of Business and Center for Leadership. With two Master’s degrees, two professional licenses, and over 15 years of entrepreneurial experience in personal branding and leadership strategy, Chloé leads Lovers Counseling with a prevention-first approach that builds relationships designed to last.
📍 Based in Boulder | 🧠 Trauma-Informed | Sex ✚ | 🌈 Inclusive & Affirming
From First Sparks To Lasting Love
We believe in a holistic journey — from first dates to decades in, love grows when we do. That’s why we offer relationship counseling at every stage: dating, premarital, and marriage. Whether you’re just beginning or deepening your bond, we’ll meet you where you are. We love couples who want to Grow Together. Jump in wherever your love story calls with our preventive, skill-based, and heart-forward counseling that builds real connection.
Our Relationship Expertise
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Navigate the complexities of modern relationships with compassionate guidance, fostering communication, trust, and connection.
Modern love can be messy — but you don’t have to navigate it alone. Whether you’re dating, defining a relationship, or healing from a breakup, we’ll explore your patterns, communication style, and emotional needs so you can move forward with clarity and self-trust.
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Build a strong foundation for your marriage through intentional conversations and shared understanding.
is a big leap — but it doesn’t have to be a blind one. This counseling offers you a space to explore values, intimacy, money, family, and future dreams before the vows. Start your commitment with real tools and shared understanding.
Looking for a self-paced option? Check out our Premarital Relationship Skills on-demand course. — guided by a licensed couples therapist.
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Overcome challenges and strengthen your bond with expert support tailored to your unique relationship.
Even good relationships hit hard seasons. We help couples repair trust, communicate without shutdown or escalation, and rediscover what makes their partnership feel safe, loving, and alive. If you’ve been stuck in the same argument or silence — you don’t have to stay there.
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Explore and enhance your physical and emotional intimacy in a safe, supportive environment.
Sex and intimacy should feel like a place you both want to go — not a source of stress, shame, or silence. In a safe, affirming space, we’ll explore emotional and physical closeness, desire differences, and relational repair. This is where vulnerability becomes connection.
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Heal from past wounds and build resilience with trauma-informed therapy that honors your journey.
Your nervous system remembers what your mind might not — and healing from relational or personal trauma takes patience, safety, and care. We offer trauma-informed therapy for individuals and couples working through triggers, past pain, and patterns that no longer serve them.
Trusted by Leading Institutions in Education, Relationship Health, and Leadership
Our work spans academic, clinical, and leadership settings — partnering with organizations that share our commitment to prevention-first relationship health.
“My fiancé and I learned more in three sessions than we learned in three years of trying to fix it ourselves.”
What Clients Are Saying
“We stopped repeating the same fights and finally started understanding each other.”
“Therapy gave my wife and I clarity, connection, and the courage to grow together.”
Ready to Grow With Love?
Your relationship deserves care, support, and the chance to thrive.
Whether you're healing, reconnecting, or starting fresh — let’s take the next step together. We offer a space where big feelings are welcomed, hard conversations are softened, and real change begins. Love is a practice — and we’re here to help you practice it well.
Nurture Your Relationship Between Sessions
Explore featured articles designed to help you deepen emotional connection, improve communication, and strengthen your relationship — whether you're dating, married, or somewhere in between.
The Missing Love Language
Most couples only learn five — but one powerful Love Language often goes unspoken. Our free guide will help you and your partner deepen emotional connection, spark intimacy, and shift old patterns gently and effectively. Plus, we included simple, research-backed practices for you to try because lasting love isn’t found — it’s nurtured.
Relationship Tools for Real Life Love
Whether you're working through conflict, building trust, or deepening intimacy, we’ve created tools to support you outside the therapy room. Explore our blog for insights on love, communication, and healing. Our resources empower you to nurture your relationship with knowledge and compassion. Check out our Resource List, featuring holistic health practitioners we trust to support your growth beyond the session.
We believe that healing happens in everyday moments — not just in therapy.
FAQs
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Prevention-first therapy is about strengthening your relationship before problems take root. Instead of waiting for a crisis, we focus on building emotional security, communication skills, and resilience so your relationship can thrive for decades to come. It’s proactive care — for love that lasts.
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Yes. In fact, most of my clients come to me when things are mostly good — they simply want them to be great. Whether you’re dating, engaged, or happily married, prevention-first therapy helps you deepen connection, navigate change, and protect what matters most.
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Absolutely. I see clients across Colorado through secure video sessions, as well as in-person in my Boulder office. Both formats are equally effective, and many couples choose a combination for convenience and flexibility.
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Most new clients can be scheduled within 1–2 weeks. I offer a complimentary consultation so we can discuss your goals, ensure a great fit, and get your first session on the calendar.
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Click the “Request a Consultation” button anywhere on the site. From there, you’ll be able to choose a time for your complimentary call. We’ll talk through your goals, answer any questions, and map out the best path forward.
Ready to reconnect, repair, and grow together?
Learn how to communicate with care, navigate conflict with confidence, and deepen emotional and physical intimacy — all with expert, heart-centered support. Here’s how to get started:
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Start here! Request a free 15-minute consultation below — no pressure, just connection.
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Get matched with the right support: private counseling or our self-paced premarital course.
Begin your journey toward deeper connection, clarity, and a more fulfilling relationship.
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We are an LGBTQIA+, kink, and gender-affirming practice that welcomes and honors all visible and invisible identities. lovers COUNSELING, LLC does not offer crisis mental health services. If you need immediate support or if you are experiencing a mental health emergency in Colorado, call Colorado Crisis Services at 1-844-493-8255. If you are outside the state of Colorado, please call 988.
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