Modern Couples Counseling in Boulder, CO
Holistic, Preventive, and Skill-Building Relationship Support from Expert Chloé Miller, MA, MFTC, LPCC
Our Couples Counseling Approach
We believe love is the most precious emotion, it needs nourishment, protection, and direction. Love that is not tended to will not survive, not from a lack of love but from a lack of understanding love. Furthermore, love can be experienced in different forms but is never replicated. Love. Is. Everything. This is why we fight for it. We come to counseling to improve our human experience - a mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual experience - with the person we love. Love only dies when we give up. Counseling gives us a chance to protect our love. By expanding your understanding of love you will feel more confident in your relationship. Confidence in love comes from confidence in your ability to regulate emotionally. Through couples counseling and individual counseling, lovers learn how to improve communication, end unhealthy relationship patterns, improve conflict resolution skills, and increase emotional regulation skills. lovers COUNSELING, in Boulder, Colorado, provides modern relationship support from relationship expert Chloé Miller, MA, MFTC, LPCC.
Meet Our Founder, Chloé Miller, MA, MFTC, LPCC
Hi! My name is Chloé Miller, MA, MFTC, LPCC - I’m the Founder of lovers COUNSELING and a double-board certified relationship therapist with over 10 years of experience. I hold a Master's Degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling, a Post-Graduate Degree in Marriage & Family Therapy, and multiple certifications in healing relational trauma. My practice blends individual, systemic, and trauma-informed counseling for holistic healing.
I believe everyone deserves love; to find it, enjoy it, protect it, and savor it. I believe love is everything it's cracked up to be and authentic connection is the most beautiful human experience. In other words, love is the magic of life. Romantic relationships start with yourself. My clients cultivate self-trust, self-love, and self-compassion. Love is everything it's cracked up to be and authentic connection is the most beautiful human experience.
Our Couples Counseling Philosophy
We need a witness to our life. There are billions of people on the planet, anyone can be an observer of your life. But in a relationship, you’re promising to care about everything. The good things, the bad things, the beautiful things, the terrible things, the mundane things…all of it, all of the time, every day. In other words, you’re saying,
“Your life will not go unnoticed because I will notice it. Your life will not go un-witnessed because I will be your witness.”
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Our Couples Counseling Services in Boulder, CO
We promote a safe space for our clients to let love nurture and heal their relationships. Our style of compassionate communication, emotional safety, and lighthearted playfulness creates a new relational dynamic that encourages love to flourish in and outside of our sessions. We are dedicated to creating a nonjudgemental space where lovers can explore emotions and needs, address challenges and wounds, have difficult conversations, and develop healthy coping strategies and communication skills.
Couples
Counseling
Nurturing love and understanding for a stronger, deeper, more intimate bond.
Individual
Counseling
Nurturing self-discovery and personal growth for a resilient and fulfilled life.
Play Therapy
for Couples
Nurturing a deeper emotional connection through the use of humor and comedy.
Testimonials from Relationship Counseling Clients
“We had a beautiful wedding yesterday!!! We felt good, we didn't get anxious and everything went great. We had such a fun time. There was an amazing sunset and even a rainbow that came out during sunset too. Thank you for all your help in our sessions!! We wouldn’t have been ready for today without you. We so appreciate you!”
KJ & WJ | Boulder, CO
“Thank you so much, lovers COUNSELING! Chloé is amazing at what she does! Through this process, we've grown individually and as a couple. Our bond feels stronger, and we're more connected than ever before. We've learned to appreciate each other's strengths and support each other through life's ups and downs.”
SL & CL | Boulder, CO
“Chloé’s insights and techniques gave us practical tools to navigate challenges together. We now approach conflicts with empathy and a deeper understanding of each other's triggers. Instead of avoiding difficult conversations, we tackle them head-on with compassion and respect. Our relationship has never been better.”
MS & TK | Boulder, CO
“We're incredibly grateful for Chloé's guidance and expertise. She played a crucial role in helping us rediscover the love and understanding that brought us together in the first place. Chloé has been invaluable. We highly recommend seeking counseling to any couple facing challenges in their relationship.”
CH & AH | Boulder, CO
“Chloé’s compassionate approach and insightful guidance has been instrumental in helping me navigate difficult emotions and past traumas. She created a safe and non-judgmental space where I could explore my thoughts and feelings without fear. With her help, I've gained a deeper understanding of myself and my past experiences.”
RL | Boulder, CO
“Chloé is therapy gold! I love that I can see her in person here in Boulder or virtually depending on my schedule. Chloé’s flexibility allows for therapeutic continuity as my schedule has me all over the place. I’m so grateful to be working with Chloé, she is the only therapist I’ve trusted to show all of myself.”
AJ | Boulder, CO
Enjoy deeper relationships with our Couples Counseling in Boulder, CO
Healing is holistic and we approach relationships intentionally and with the goal of co-creation. We partner with our clients to co-create the relationship of their dreams. Our therapist meets clients at all stages of the relationship - from the preventative stage, all the way to reparative emotional support, lovers work with our therapist to take their relationship to new destinations based on a conscious co-created future rooted in shared values. Click the link below to book your consultation today!
Our Couples Counseling Specialties
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Dating Counseling
We offer counseling for individuals working through unsuccessful relationship patterns on their self-discovery journey.
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Relationship Counseling
We offer individual counseling and couples counseling for partners working at any stage of their relationship.
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Premarital Counseling
We offer counseling for couples making life changes and making deeper commitments in their relationship.
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Marriage Counseling
We offer couples counseling for relationships navigating marriage, raising children, and life transitions.
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Sexual Wellness and Intimacy Counseling
We offer individual counseling and couples counseling for relationships working through desire and intimacy challenges.
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Breakup and Divorce Counseling
We offer grief counseling for individuals and couples navigating the final stages of their relationship.
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Relationship Counseling for Teens
We offer psycho-education-based relationship counseling to teens fostering a healthy relationship foundation.
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LGBTQIA+ Affirming Relationship Counseling
We offer inclusive LGBTQIA+, kink, and gender-affirming relationship counseling to lovers of all kinds.
Healing occurs in the present, not the past. We’re not held back by the love we didn’t get in the past, but by the love we’re not giving in the present. As we love, we release pain.”
―Marianne Williamson, Return to Love ―
Frequently Asked Questions about our Couples Counseling in Boulder, CO
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Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs) and Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs) are both mental health professionals who work with different populations and focus on different issues:
Licensed Mariage Family Therapists (LMFT)
Focus on the relational dynamics of families, marriages, and couples. LMFTs may work with individuals in families or couples in one-on-one settings to help them manage issues like abuse, grief, depression, behavioral issues, infidelity, and life transitions. Their goal is to help families or couples find harmony, decrease conflict, and overcome challenges.
Licensed Professional Counselors (LPC)
Focus on the needs of individuals, including mental and emotional illness, substance abuse, disability, personal trauma, and career counseling. LPCs may work in private practice, hospitals, prisons, nonprofits, or the VA. Their goal is to help individuals or groups improve habits that affect their mental health.
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Yes, we offer in-person sessions in our Boulder office! Additionally, we offer virtual sessions via Telehealth, with a HIPAA-compliant virtual platform.
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Our practice does not accept insurance. We can accept HSA payments, as well as supply clients with superbills to submit to insurance companies that offer reimbursement.
Health insurance typically only covers medically necessary behavioral healthcare for the treatment of diagnosable psychiatric conditions.
We are focused on personal growth and positive change — not diagnosis and treatment of psychiatric conditions. Our approach is relational, systemic, and strengths-based, not focused on illness and psychopathology.
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All sessions are 55-minutes-long with longer sessions available upon request.
Chloé Miller, MA, MFTC, LPCC:
Individual Therapy: $185
Couples Therapy: $225 -
1. No Diagnosis Required: Services are not contingent upon a diagnosis. Insurance companies require a diagnosis to receive financial reimbursement for counseling.
2. Your Privacy Is Protected: Insurance companies require information about their clients’ diagnoses, and qualifying symptoms, and work in counseling. Bypassing insurance companies allows strict confidentiality. No information is shared with anyone.
3. Service And Timing Are Your Decision: The type of service you need and the time frame it is provided is a decision made between the partners in the therapy process, based on direct experience, rather than an insurance company deciding the amount and level of coverage.
Book Your Couples Counseling Appointment Today
*Schedule a Consultation
Submit a contact form and schedule a complimentary 15-minute consultation to answer your questions and determine fit.
*Book an Appointment
We offer in-person appointments at our office and HIPAA-compliant virtual sessions for clients with scheduling constraints.
*Improve Your Relationships
Together we’ll set goals and achieve growth at your pace. Our therapist can offer homework, insight, and non-biased advice.
Learn how to improve effective communication, repair and reconnect after conflict, and deepen your emotional and physical intimacy. Let’s discuss your relationship goals. Schedule a consultation today!
We are an LGBTQIA+, kink, and gender-affirming practice that welcomes and honors all visible and invisible identities. lovers COUNSELING, LLC does not offer crisis mental health services. If you need immediate support or if you are experiencing a mental health emergency in Colorado, call Colorado Crisis Services at 1-844-493-8255. If you are outside the state of Colorado, please call 988.
