Modern Relationship Counseling for Couples Who Want to Grow Together — Not Apart
Big Feelings. Honest Conversations. Real Growth. We help modern couples build trust, navigate hard conversations, and create emotional safety that lasts. Explore deeper connection and lasting love with Chloé Miller, MA, MFTC, LPCC — relationship therapy in Boulder, CO.
Love. Is. Everything. This is why we fight for it.
We come to counseling to learn about ourselves and our love. Love only dies when we give up. Counseling gives us a chance to grow with our love.
Our philosophy is rooted in holistic, preventive, and skill-building relationship support: Dating Counseling + Premarital Counseling + Marriage Counseling. Through couples counseling, individual counseling, and relationship courses, lovers learn how to improve communication, end unhealthy relationship patterns, improve conflict resolution skills, and increase emotional regulation skills. lovers COUNSELING, in Boulder, Colorado, provides modern relationship counseling from relationship therapist Chloé Miller, MA, MFTC, LPCC.
Even strong relationships need support. We help couples and individuals work through: communication breakdowns, trust and betrayal challenges, emotional and physical intimacy issues, premarital foundation and relationship planning, conflict and disconnection patterns, life transitions, anxiety, and avoidance. You don’t have to be in crisis to be in counseling. You don’t have to be in counseling to begin. You just have to want more — more clarity, more peace, more connection.
Redefining Romance with Couples Therapy in Boulder
Relationship Counseling in Boulder, CO
Therapy that meets you where you are — and helps you get where you want to go.
We use an integrative approach rooted in the Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy, and Internal Family Systems. But beyond the techniques, we lead with warmth, non-judgment, and deep respect for your story. Heal together and learn skills to expand your understanding and capacity for love and feel confident navigating modern love.
Virtual & In-Person Sessions
Premarital Relationship Course
Set your relationship up for long-term success with therapist-led, skill-based sessions designed to build clarity, trust, and emotional safety.
Couples
Counseling
Rebuild connection. Repair trust. Learn how to communicate and love more effectively. Nurturing love and understanding for a more intimate bond.
Individual
Counseling
Heal your patterns. Journey through self-discovery. Explore your attachment style. Show up differently for yourself and your partner.
Therapy Rooted in Connection, Not Perfection
Meet Chloé Miller
Your Relationship Therapist in Boulder
Our Founder/Owner
Hi! My name is Chloé Miller, MA, MFTC, LPCC - I’m the Founder of lovers COUNSELING and a Double Board-Certified Relationship Therapist. I hold a Master's Degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling, a Post-Graduate Degree in Marriage & Family Therapy, advanced training in healing trauma, and multiple certifications in diverse healing modalities. With 10+ years of experience in personal development and trauma recovery, I specialize in attachment healing, self-awareness, and emotional resilience. My practice blends individual, systemic, and trauma-informed counseling for holistic healing.
I believe everyone deserves love; to find it, enjoy it, protect it, and savor it. I believe love is everything it's cracked up to be and authentic connection is the most beautiful human experience. In other words, love is the magic of life. Romantic relationships start with yourself. My clients cultivate self-trust, self-love, and self-compassion. Love is everything it's cracked up to be and authentic connection is the most beautiful human experience. Whether you're preparing for marriage or healing from rupture, I’m here to walk with you.
📍 Based in Boulder | 🧠 Trauma-Informed | Sex ✚ | 🌈 Inclusive & Affirming
From First Sparks To Lasting Love
We believe in a holistic journey — from first dates to decades in, love grows when we do. That’s why we offer relationship counseling at every stage: dating, premarital, and marriage. Whether you’re just beginning or deepening your bond, we’ll meet you where you are. We love couples who want to Grow Together. Jump in wherever your love story calls with our preventive, skill-based, and heart-forward counseling that builds real connection.
Premarital Counseling Boulder, Couples Therapy Boulder
Our Relationship Expertise
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Navigate the complexities of modern relationships with compassionate guidance, fostering communication, trust, and connection.
Modern love can be messy — but you don’t have to navigate it alone. Whether you’re dating, defining a relationship, or healing from a breakup, we’ll explore your patterns, communication style, and emotional needs so you can move forward with clarity and self-trust.
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Build a strong foundation for your marriage through intentional conversations and shared understanding.
is a big leap — but it doesn’t have to be a blind one. This counseling offers you a space to explore values, intimacy, money, family, and future dreams before the vows. Start your commitment with real tools and shared understanding.
Looking for a self-paced option? Check out our Premarital Relationship Skills on-demand course. — guided by a licensed couples therapist.
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Overcome challenges and strengthen your bond with expert support tailored to your unique relationship.
Even good relationships hit hard seasons. We help couples repair trust, communicate without shutdown or escalation, and rediscover what makes their partnership feel safe, loving, and alive. If you’ve been stuck in the same argument or silence — you don’t have to stay there.
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Explore and enhance your physical and emotional intimacy in a safe, supportive environment.
Sex and intimacy should feel like a place you both want to go — not a source of stress, shame, or silence. In a safe, affirming space, we’ll explore emotional and physical closeness, desire differences, and relational repair. This is where vulnerability becomes connection.
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Heal from past wounds and build resilience with trauma-informed therapy that honors your journey.
Your nervous system remembers what your mind might not — and healing from relational or personal trauma takes patience, safety, and care. We offer trauma-informed therapy for individuals and couples working through triggers, past pain, and patterns that no longer serve them.
“We learned more in three sessions than in three years of trying to fix it ourselves.”
What Our Couples Say
“We stopped repeating the same fights and finally started understanding each other.”
“Therapy gave us clarity, connection, and the courage to grow together.”
Relationship Tools for Real Life Love
Whether you're working through conflict, building trust, or deepening intimacy, we’ve created tools to support you outside the therapy room. Explore our blog for insights on love, communication, and healing. Our resources empower you to nurture your relationship with knowledge and compassion. Check out our Resource List, featuring holistic health practitioners we trust to support your growth beyond the session.
We believe that healing happens in everyday moments — not just in therapy.
Ready to reconnect, repair, and grow together?
Learn how to communicate with care, navigate conflict with confidence, and deepen emotional and physical intimacy — all with expert, heart-centered support. Here’s how to get started:
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Start here! Book a free 15-minute consultation below — no pressure, just connection.
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Get matched with the right support: private counseling or our self-paced premarital course.
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Begin your journey toward deeper connection, clarity, and a more fulfilling relationship.
We are an LGBTQIA+, kink, and gender-affirming practice that welcomes and honors all visible and invisible identities. lovers COUNSELING, LLC does not offer crisis mental health services. If you need immediate support or if you are experiencing a mental health emergency in Colorado, call Colorado Crisis Services at 1-844-493-8255. If you are outside the state of Colorado, please call 988.